is a question that I would like you to consider. Take the situation
where a woman says to herself that the guy she has been on a date
with is quite cute and has spent a fortune on entertaining her and
bought her a couple of really nice expensive gifts while they have
been together, so she might as well have some fun and have sex with
him. In those circumstances is she a prostitute because the man has
spent a lot of money on her and given her gifts and in return she has
had sex with him? What about a lady who thinks to herself that she
might as well miss out the whole dating and dinner thing and just get
money for sex rather than a handbag or a pair of shoes because the
end result is the same. Is a woman who takes that decision a
girlfriend or a whore?
far as I am concerned the first lady is simply kidding herself about
her real status and what her relationship is about, while the second
woman is being extremely honest about the reality of her status and
what so many short and long term relationships between men and women
are really about. When I am selling the services of the sexiest high class escort London can supply there is no ambiguity about what it going on. It is always possible that I am wrong about my view
of men and women, sex and relationships but I think transactional sex
is much more simple than the majority of people.
are a few of my thoughts about sex and people, which are not
researched in the traditional sense, but are instead just my
ramblings based on my considerable experience of the sex industry and
dealing with thousands of men and women and their sex lives. Even in
these days, in an age when ladies and gents are far more equal in
their work lives and in their potential to make money at work, the
desire or need for financial support can exert a big influence the
way women behave sexually.
is often said by lots of people that most women primarily crave
security, while most men are looking to achieve status. Like so many
generalisations regarding the genders, these traits and desires
actually overlap for the majority of people, but at the extremes of
behaviour it is definitely true. Women desire material and financial
security and that obviously makes complete evolutionary sense. And
with that in mind, swapping sex with men for security and protection
is a very intelligent and sensible strategy. So it is only a small
step of social development and economics for women to work as escorts
to gain financial security and independence.
men want status because in terms of evolution that gives the most
successful men an opportunity to have sex with the greatest number of
desirable and attractive women. And in this society men will pay for
sex with women who are more attractive than they would normally be
able to attract in order to prove their status, as well as for the
obvious reasons of pure sexual pleasure.
for me personally, I have to say that the term transactional sex
applies when money or gifts are swapped for sex. Such gifts can be
holidays, meals, cash, handbags or shoes. In many cases, things such
as phones, food, rent, and clothing are also supplied to women as
incentives rather than simple cash gifts so as to make their
behaviour seem less like that of a professional prostitute.